Erika Jayne, 52, revealed that her marriage to Tom Girardi, 84, continues to be an ongoing matter of debate on Season 13 of The Actual Housewives of Beverly Hills, which premieres on October 25. Throughout a candid interview with US Weekly hours forward of the season premiere, the songstress mentioned that it “hurts” to speak about her estranged partner. “I’ve moved past the last three years, but I don’t know if others will let me move past,” she mentioned of her co-stars on the Bravo collection.

The 52-year-old additionally seemingly confirmed that her divorce from Tom continues to be ongoing. “I still have legal things that are tying up, and they will take time because that’s the legal process,” Erika added. “But I want to move on. … Every time someone asks me about Tom Girardi or something like this, you realize you’re cutting open a healing wound and you’re stabbing around in it, and that hurts.”

She additionally defined that she disapproves of these round her persevering with to ask about her cut up from the 84-year-old. “I don’t care who you are,” Erika continued. “If every time you sit down, someone says, ‘So, tell us about this,’ or, ‘Look at this, what were you thinking?’ Isn’t it obvious what I was thinking at that time? That’s what I dislike.” The “Pretty Mess” hitmaker and Tom have been married since 2000, though Erika filed to finish her marriage in November 2020.

In a separate interview with Leisure Tonight on October 24, Erika defined that the divorce proceedings are the “last thing” on her thoughts. “In the order of all of the problems I’m facing, it’s probably the absolute last thing,” she revealed in the future forward of the present’s premiere. “I just don’t think about it. The day I filed for divorce and we were legally separated, that was it for me. We are in very different places. I have a lot to clean up and pick up and move on.”

Almost three years after the cut up, Erika mentioned that “looking out” for herself was one of many classes she realized from the divorce. “We all have to do it our own way. Nobody’s gonna look out for you but yourself,” she quipped. “Even after a two decade-plus marriage, that’s what it came down to, looking out for yourself.” Now, Erika is transferring on and hopes that the remainder of the RHOBH solid will as properly. “I still will heal. It’s a process,” she mentioned. “Grief all the way around is a whole process that comes in waves. But what I am doing is I’m choosing to move on. And I wish those around me would allow me to do so.” New episodes of RHOBH will premiere on Bravo on October 25 and streaming the next day on Peacock.